Friday, November 11, 2005

Dahlonega, Georgia








I looked in the fridge. Out of milk, and it was only nine a.m. I threw the toddler into the car seat after chasing him (who was chasing the cat) through the yard. I walked into the grocery store and all the Christmas displays were lodged in my path at every turn. Chocolate covered cherries made me tear up. Not because I like them. I hate them. But it was my mom's favorite. I realized that this was going to be my first Christmas without her. By the time I got back home, I was little more than a heap.

My husband let me cry, and then he dropped his workday to take me to the mountains before the leaves fell. (They won't be around for much longer.) We started out at the mandatory Chick-Fil-a before heading out of town, and were driving down the highway before we even looked at a map. Quaint Dahlonega seemed to be situated right in direction where we were headed, so it became the destination. We also made a stopover at the Amicalola State Park on the way back. ("Amicalola" is Cherokee for "tumbling waters.")

5 Things not left unsaid:

Anonymous said...

Beautiful pictures! http://charyl.blogspot.com
:-) Take care!

Fiona Ruby Dust said...

Yes, I agree, your pictures are gorgeous. It also sounds like you have a lovely family.

Thank you for reading my blog about the shoe exhibit--I hope I can continue to do more with my blog than just review period dramas.

Here is my favorite quote of the day:

"there exist friendships which develop their own inner duration, their own eons of transparent time, independent of rotating, malicious music."
-Pale Fire

Best,
Megan

Beth Danae said...

Cool pics, which I could see the south, never been there.

Jozee said...

Dear Ophelia,

So sorry about your mom. I just lost mine to cancer in September.

Though I am an absolute grownup I feel completely bereft without her.

My dad shot himself 17 years ago this month which was such a shock and atrocity it took me years to get over it.

In order to compensate for my loss I take comfort in anything that reminds me of him by thinking it's a message directly from him to me to remind me that he is still with me even though I can't see him. In his case it's usually a heron sighting that says to me , Dad's here.

My mom's loss is too fresh for me to know exactly what her reminders will be. Though a clematis in my garden had one random bloom the other day after many years of not blooming so I decided to count this as a greeting from her since she loved to garden.

Losing one's parents is difficult but I remind myself it's part of the oftentimes painful process we call life.

Something we have to adapt to whether we want to or not.

You are a great photographer and writer.

Take care and hug your son and husband extra tight.

Josie

Phil said...

Sorry you lost your Mom.
You really are a wonderful photographer