I wasn't too alarmed when my 4-year-old took up my Atlantic Monthly for perusal. He's still reading within the realms of his age group, so I didn't think he could gather anything from it that might be inappropriate. But it did raise my motherly eyebrows when he said, obviously very scared, "Mom, is there a meteor headed for earth!?" First, I couldn't believe that he even knew the word "meteor." Where did you learn about meteors?" I asked. "It saw it on Arthur." (A children's cartoon). I thought about telling him the theory about meteors and decimated dinosaurs, but immediately thought better of it, namely because it would scare him even more, but also beceause I don't really know if it has since been disproven since I learned about dinosaurs. He's also started his first bout with nightmares lately, and I didn't want to give his bad dreams any more fodder. So I just settled on doing what I often do when he gives me such tough little questions that I don't know how to answer: "Hey! Would you like to have some ice cream?" (I'm a firm believer that the art of distraction is sometimes necessary for effective parenting.)
Monday, May 12, 2008
Here at Home
I wasn't too alarmed when my 4-year-old took up my Atlantic Monthly for perusal. He's still reading within the realms of his age group, so I didn't think he could gather anything from it that might be inappropriate. But it did raise my motherly eyebrows when he said, obviously very scared, "Mom, is there a meteor headed for earth!?" First, I couldn't believe that he even knew the word "meteor." Where did you learn about meteors?" I asked. "It saw it on Arthur." (A children's cartoon). I thought about telling him the theory about meteors and decimated dinosaurs, but immediately thought better of it, namely because it would scare him even more, but also beceause I don't really know if it has since been disproven since I learned about dinosaurs. He's also started his first bout with nightmares lately, and I didn't want to give his bad dreams any more fodder. So I just settled on doing what I often do when he gives me such tough little questions that I don't know how to answer: "Hey! Would you like to have some ice cream?" (I'm a firm believer that the art of distraction is sometimes necessary for effective parenting.)
Imparted by Southern Girl at 9:38 PM
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